Something important – even magical – has happened for Kate. Like any young child, she loves and believes in Santa.
She has spent the past 7 years being terrified of the jolly old elf, but this year the tables are turned. Santa is a regular in our home. We look at picture books about him, we drag around Santa stuffies, we have Santa ornaments and we regularly stalk him at the local malls.
To be honest, we saw the Santa love starting to emerge last Christmas. She watched him from afar, from the safety of holding onto my hand or from her dad’s arms. She was curious of him, she liked to see him and talk about him, but there was no way she was getting close to him, let alone sitting on his knee.
Santa loved has lasted over the much of the past 12 months – in Kate’s world things don’t end just because the ‘season’ is over. We celebrate on an ongoing basis as long as Kate shows interest. We have easily watched Dora’s Christmas Carol, featuring Santa, more than 100 times. (Birthdays and talking about birthday parties lasts a LONG time around here too). But Santa love has gone into overdrive since he started appearing at malls, in holiday decor, at xmas tree farms, and in arts and crafts at school.
He is hands down one of the best markers of Kate’s development. Kate is entering the world of “magical thinking” and pretend play. Suddenly princesses have become important, and playing mommy to her dolls and stuffies, and Santa and loving him and are part of that. Kate’s ability to understand – at some level – the ‘pretend’ of Santa shows a change in her cognition. There is some research that shows understanding ‘pretend’ allows a child to develop greater social understanding, and the ability to understand someone’s else’s perspective and this leads to an increase in social interaction and social play.
For our family, it is the joy of seeing a little girl with so many challenges light up at the sight of a warm and friendly person in a bright red suit at Christmas time. It is the heart-bursting moment of seeing her ‘get it’, and to see her excitement and joy, and knowing that she is her own little person growing at her own pace, but that she can enjoy Santa just as others can.
There have been many Santa moments for us this year – all of them wonderful. The most recent highlight at the Rogers House Christmas Party, Kate asking Santa for what she wants most for Christmas – French Fries.